To the woman who has spent so long giving, bending, and showing up for everyone else —
this is a love letter to you.
I see you.
I see the weight you carry, the quiet sacrifices you make, and the parts of yourself you tuck away to keep the peace.
You may feel like you’ve forgotten who you are beneath all the roles and responsibilities.
But here’s the truth:
You have never been lost.
You have just been hiding, waiting for a safe place to remember yourself.
It’s okay to feel tired.
It’s okay to feel overwhelmed.
It’s okay to want something different.
You deserve time to reconnect with your own heart, your own voice, your own dreams.
This is your invitation to come home — slowly, gently, without judgment.
How to Begin Remembering Yourself
- Pause for a moment each day: Even five minutes of quiet can help you tune back in.
- Write a letter to yourself: Speak with kindness and curiosity about who you are now, not who you were expected to be.
- Let go of shoulds: What expectations can you release today to give yourself breathing room?
- Celebrate small victories: Every time you honor your needs, you reclaim a piece of yourself.
You Are Enough
You are more than the roles you play or the labor you perform.
You are a whole, worthy, beautiful person — exactly as you are.
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Erika Patterson Coaching 