By Erika Patterson | April 12, 2026
This weekend, much of the world is pausing. Whether it is the quiet, damp stillness of a spring morning or the vibrant, rhythmic pulse of a communal celebration, there is a collective focus on a singular theme: Resurrection.
But for the woman who has spent her life being the foundation for everyone else—the one navigating the invisible labour of transition, career shifts, or healing—rebirth can feel like a heavy demand. We are often told to “spring forward” and to “rise” even when our nervous systems are still tethered to the winter of our exhaustion.
We have been taught that our strength is measured by how much we can carry. But I am here to tell you that your true power is found in your rhythm.
The Compost Before the Bloom
In my RECLAIM framework, we do not simply jump to the “Rising.” We honour the Compost. Before anything can be resurrected, something must first be allowed to rest, to break down, and to return to the earth.
I see so many of us trying to bloom while still carrying the weight of a chaotic hustle that no longer serves us. We carry the expectations of our ancestors, the needs of our children, and the pressures of a world that doesn’t always see our humanity.
You cannot find your sovereignty if you are still trying to carry the version of yourself that stayed “strong” at the expense of her own spirit. True rebirth requires the courage to let that version return to the soil.
An Invitation to Steady Ground
My heart and my practice have always been a sanctuary for women navigating these transitions across the globe—those of us walking new paths in the Diaspora and those leading with grace on the Continent. I recognize that for us, “strength” has often been a survival mechanism rather than a choice.
This season of renewal is for you, not for what you can produce for your community or your career.
“Nakuthamini. Nguvu yako ni amani yako.” (I value you. Your strength is in your peace.)
This Easter, your “rising” does not have to be a loud, public performance. It can be a quiet, somatic shift. It can be the moment you decide that your rhythm is more important than the world’s rush. It is an act of self-honour to say “no” to the overwhelm and “yes” to your own soul.
Three Ways to Reclaim Your Rhythm Today:
- Exhale the Expectations: For five minutes, put down the mental “to-do” list. Feel the weight of the chair holding you. Remember that the earth is steady enough to carry you; you do not have to carry it.
- Honour the Transition: Acknowledge one thing you have composted this year—a role you finally stepped out of, or a “strong front” you have finally lowered.
- Savour Your Silence: If your body is asking for stillness today, give it stillness. That is where your sovereignty lives.
The Path Forward
The stone does not roll away because the sun rose; it rolls away because the time for hiding was over.
If you are ready to stop hiding your exhaustion and start inhabiting your power, I invite you to join me. My April sanctuary is open, and I have a seat at the table for you.
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